Therapy for women and couples breaking cycles

Serving women and couples in-person in San Luis Obispo, and all of California online

  • You and your partner keep having the same argument, no matter how many times you've tried to talk it out

  • You feel overwhelmed, resentful, or disconnected some days, and then judges yourself hard for feeling that way

  • You react to your kids or partner in ways you swore you never would, and hear your own parent's voice come out of your mouth

  • Your mind feels so loud or heavy that you can't be present - not with your kids, not with your partner, not even in moments you know you should be enjoying

  • You're planning a wedding, having a baby, changing careers, or moving, and you thought you are having a difficult time coping with the change

  • You find yourself checking, replaying conversations, or mentally reviewing your day for mistakes, and you're worn out from managing thoughts you can't switch off

  • From the outside you look completely put-together, but privately you feel like you're barely holding it together

  • Family interactions leave you carrying tension or anxiety that doesn't stay contained, it spills into your relationships

  • Your faith matters to you, but you've never had a therapist who could hold your spiritual life and your mental health in the same conversation

  • You've been to therapy before and know all the language, but something still feels stuck underneath the insight

Do any of these sound like you?

Therapy that meets you where you are

Trinity Berguia is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in San Luis Obispo, CA, who works with women in the middle of, or preparing for, a major life transition: marriage, motherhood, a career change, a move, or any season where life is asking you to become someone new.

She's especially drawn to clients who sense that something from earlier in life (an old wound, a pattern, a piece of childhood that was never fully processed) is surfacing right now and making this transition harder than it has to be. Her work often includes supporting women through anxiety, high-functioning OCD, and the emotional weight of pregnancy and postpartum, an area she's pursued advanced training in because it matters deeply to her.

For clients who want it, Trinity is also glad to work from a faith-based lens, holding space for how your spiritual life connects to your healing rather than treating the two as separate.

In your work with Trinity, you won't just talk about what's going on, you'll get curious about where it comes from. That might mean noticing the different parts of you that show up in conflict, understanding why your body reacts the way it does even when your mind knows you're safe, and looking at how your earliest relationships shaped what feels normal to you now. The goal isn't to relive the past for its own sake, it's to help your nervous system finally feel settled, so old patterns stop running on autopilot and you can respond to this new season of life from a calmer, more grounded place.

She offers in-person therapy in San Luis Obispo and secure online therapy throughout California.

Free 15-minute consultations are available, so reach out today.

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Let’s get that spark back

IT’S ALWAYS BEEN THERE. YOU JUST GOTTA KNOW WHERE TO LOOK.

Picture having a trusted friend who listens deeply and helps you sort through your feelings without judgment. That’s what each session aims to be. Therapy can provide a safe and supportive space to explore these feelings and begin to understand how they've shaped your current sense of self. Together, you and Trinity can work on developing healthier coping mechanisms and learn to prioritize your own well-being. You deserve to feel seen, heard, and valued.

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Come in to the office, or stay at home.

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You can choose if you would like to attend therapy in the office where there is complimentary tea, coffee, and treats. Or, if you feel more comfortable in your home, a Telehealth link will be sent to your email.

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